I think I should be posting in this group but there are so many good threads.
Past: Discovered H "A" w/OW in May 2012. He did not end the A immediately. It was 8 months before H completely ended the A w/OW. By this time, I was well into GAL and stronger than ever. I paid off some financial debt, opened a separate bank account and started me an emergency fund. Making sure I was prepared for any outcome.
Present: Both H and I have done many things right w/renewing our R but we have also done some stupid things as well. He recently backslid with text messages to OW. We discussed the conversations. I know that I cannot control who another person talks or texts however I have made it clear to H that any contact w/OW is a deal breaker for me. I will no longer accept that type of behavior in my life.
Future: We celebrated our 17 year anniversary on Friday. H made some recommitment statements. It's nice but actions speak so much louder than words so I always look for the action to back up the words.
