I figured that I would just not call him while he is away at work and see if he calls me. Then I would do the focus on me with counseling, AA, bible study, and such. You are not rude at all....And I am absolutely open for suggestions..lately a lot of times I post to vent and just think out loud...so I don't say or do things that will make my sitch worse than it already is...which is pretty bad..
