Glad to give some strength & hope At first I found it so hard as my emotions were so strong but the more i've detached the easier its become, I also try to see the bigger picture when things arent going so well & that helps me to see the positives too. I've also realised that the changes in my H are often very subtle but I know him very well so they're easy to spot once you know what to look for.
The main thing i'd say is if something feels like its going against what you'd normally do or feel like doing then DO IT - Its important to do what works!
I've been separated & living on my own with the kids now for nearly 8 months so I already KNOW that i'll be ok on my own, I think that's half the battle in the early days. Although it knocked me for 6 when my H decided to stop working at our M 3mths ago I was able to get back on my feet quicker as i'd already done some ground work before if that makes sense?
Divorce Final: Oct 2014
Your struggles today, develop strength for tomorrow...
At first I found it so hard as my emotions were so strong but the more i've detached the easier its become, I also try to see the bigger picture when things arent going so well & that helps me to see the positives too. I've also realised that the changes in my H are often very subtle but I know him very well so they're easy to spot once you know what to look for.