Glad you joined my thread you make a lot of sense. I am sure by now you have read my comments on the meeting we had.
We just can not afford her right now to get heer own apartment.
I also agree with you. If an attractive woman starts to express intrest in a lonely man who has never been happy in any relationship etc etc, ofcourse he is going to go for it.
The issue with me is EGO vs him. But I do still love her very much. I just dont get why if we were so in love we treated each other so poorly for so long.
I was hoping that if shes in the house and I treat her as a roomate she will see the type of man I am. the only thing is that while hes been here they do so much together. She has no responsibilities on the weekends. And he is spending every last dollar he has on her. Once he reruns home, even if we do things as friends etc (if that's recommended) I right now cant throw money around and do all those things with her.
I am very sad, I feel like I will loose her no matter what I do.
Even if this is just an exit affair for her.
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
