I don't know how intelligent people can lie and live so comfortably with themselves..
You were a good wife.. I was a good wife.. my h even said so..he said we had good times but he doesn't want to talk about them at all What is interesting is my crimes keep shifting..in 6 months there have been at least 5 shifts.. I willingly acknowledge my part.. he sees his part as being too nice !!! So now he is mean and miserable
except he was better this weekend.. and he pursued a R talk that I did not want to have.
he wanted me to sign a form to do with banking I said i did not trust him and would sign once some other papers were ready.. he looked ready to be angry.. raised the issue of trust.. between us.. I wanted to say.. let us just discuss trust on the basis of the last 6 months... but me poking at his sore points does not help me to achieve my goal.. so i did n't.
Chin up train there is no happy way to endure this experience I think.. it hurts..
