Exactly Starsky and that is what I believe as well. Here's an update.
Thursday night,4/03. H was upstairs for most of the day and night hanging over and asleep. Well, that is what he said as I only peeked my head in the door and he was laying down on the floor. I decided to go out and GAL for awhile. I stayed out pretty late but I had a great time. H texted me several times asking my whereabouts but I did not respond. I did not realize he texted me until I was getting ready to drive home.
Friday 4/04. It is our 17yr anniversary and I had already scheduled off work. H greeted me with roses, gifts and a card. The card says that he was sorry for everything, he loves me and wants to spend to the rest of his lift with me. I did not comment but I did thank him for the gifts. Later on, we went to the movies and dinner.
H finally asked where I was on Thursday night. I told him that that he is not privy to my life if he has any contact w/OW. No more apologies, I need proof in his actions. H said he was stupid for this latest incident.
Saturday, H and I spent some time with his family. Then all of sudden, I get a text from OW. I politely ask her delete my number and do not send me any more requests, links, etc. She stated she did not know who I was and that her phone apps will send out random msgs. I knew she was lying but said who I was in text and then again asked that she delete my number. Instead of letting that be it, she sends me another text about how she is in H heart 4ever, that she broke things off with him, then shifts to how sorry she was for the past and hope that I can forgive her one day. What a nutt job! and I told her just that as I preceded to tell her once again to stop texting me and delete my number. H did not say anything during this time except nothing is going on between the two of them.
Sunday was a lazy day. Redbox movies and takeout. No mention of OW or the texts between the two of them. H was smothering to point of being annoying. H also wants me to re-friend him on FB but I told him that we did not need to be friends on FB.I had originally unfriended him because I thought he was following her but he says its only the name of the group site. Anyway, I'm not interested in rushing into making him feel comfortable or in control. No contact means No contact.
