Wife moved out to be with her Tour Guide Lover

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I am trying to balance between the different forums. I started on the other one before I found this.

I really really feel that if she's back in the home and I try and 180 her and come here for advice, I may turn things around.

I also started thinking about the way she operates,

This just hit me like a ton of bricks

I realize that my STBXW has been thinking about leaving for years. She has waited and waited probably trying to hold out until S15 graduate high school.

Then this charlatan came around. And guess what she is not as in love,with him as he is her. That why his texts are all mushy and hers are,like love,you, see you...bye...etc.

What she wants,is the life he is offering her,of living here and Israel, as well as freedom from responsibilities.

I kept thinking she was in love with the life and thinking it was him...

We have all been fooled by her even the MC and Collaborative coach...


I feel like She,used me for 30+"years to give her two boys a nice home etc! when she felt she was finished with that she was looking for her freedom, and this poor sucker pos fell right into her trap.

Now she is using him!!

OMFG. I CAN't BELIEVE THIS! I finally got her number....