Thank you Wonka! Yes, some of this is "mind reading" and I'm trying not to do that. When I asked about the Testosterone she told me she's using it because "I like sex and I want to have sex again. Just not with you". So that was her answer.
I do know better than to try and come between her and her dad. I just wish he had just stayed the hell out of our lives!
Yes, very lucid moment when she told me how to "win" back a woman! I have a feeling that as I detach, I may see a different side of her but trying to only do things for me. Not to get her attention. It's sometimes hard to seperate the two but I'm trying. One good thing is I'm getting along better with my daughters than ever before and trying to do more with them.
