One year in but a newbie

[whytry]

Ouch LT. I can't even fathom saying something so ridiculous in front of children. I do appreciate you sharing how you handled the sitch and I think some of the details pertain to me as my spouse keeps saying they want to find someone "they" want/need rather than waiting for me to finish changing. Very odd cuz of our age, small town we live and work etc. Looking for perfection where non exists but oh well.