The thing that is pretty sad is that she is depriving them of being with my side of the family. My kids will miss out on something that they loved.

I may try to have my family get together on another day with them, that's what we did at Christmas.

As far as splitting the holiday time equally, that would make sense if we're splitting the rest of the time equally as well which unfortunately isn't the case, yet.


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS