Sad times

[Upwards]

Be kind to yourself MamaB, imagine what you'd say to a friend if they were in your position. There is no rush & although I know it feels like you will never get there I absolutely promise you that yo will.

Something someone said to me on here has really stuck with me "the only way through this is THROUGH it" and its true, there are no shortcuts so we just have to allow the emotions and feelings to flow and accept that each and every one of them is a sign that we are healing and moving forwards. It can be so painful at times and we feel very much like we're not getting anywhere but when you look back you will see that you are getting a little stronger with each and every day that passes.

I found packing H's stuff away really helped me, I also found putting my own stamp on things & doing some decorating helped too. I also moved some furniture around & got new bedding etc - only small things but it really helped me feel like I was moving forwards.

Your doing fab (((MamaB)))