Hello, we are suppose to attend a session with a new counselor next week. We tried one but even my wife thought she was going to be too biased against me. I have just read Sandi's 37 rules and have made many, many mistakes but starting to day am going to live by them. I think they are great advice wish I had seen them a few weeks ago. In the meantime, any general advice for the first session. To give you an idea where my wife is she has pretty much said she it out the door and "maybe" could change her mind. Lots of anger and blame for me. Any advice would be appreciated.


Me:45
Wife?:40
Daughter:12
Son:10
Together:16 yrs
Married:13 yrs
Prognosis: ?