Dev, I caught up on your sitch just yesterday. We are facing some of the same issues re: co-sleeping and nursing AND dealing with what appears to be "emotional setbacks" with our spouses due to cutting out the cake-eating. Sigh. I'll be keeping up with you and will drop by and say hello if/when I can add anything valuable. You do the same. Hang in there!!
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014