One year in but a newbie

[paul19510]

For her to bring this up in front of thr kids almost seems like she's expecting their support. My stbx used to do the same thing sbout buying a new house. She'd tell the kids we were going to look at this place and get them all hyped uup and then I'd be the "bad guy" when I'd have to say we couldn't afford it...not the kids decision or business....same is true with your M