One year in but a newbie

[Lifes Twists]

Thanks hrthrt9,

I agree and that is why I told her only under the condition of working on marriage. Unfortunately she will see this as a problem she has accused me of, of only seeing things in black and white. I am willing to lose her over this. I don't feel that anyone with some self respect would agree to this kind of arrangement. I have decided to let her deal with her financial situation and only offer guidance if asked but not bail her out. This was part of the problem of the past. If she hates me for it then she has not grown from this experience and would not be a good idea to get back together till she has.