Thanks- I am quite certain it will take many steps and many months, if recovery ever happens at all.
As for your first set of questions, is there a way to message you? They are, shall I say, a bit uncomfortable for me to answer.
Yes, she began her A after finding of mine, and no I hadn't confessed or apologized for my EA yet. Admittedly, I apologized even more so after my withdrawal, and began to really see that my feelings weren't all what I thought they were.
