The way I read what you wrote was that Scorp should just accept that his W (who is perfectly nice and normal) took his kids four hours away without his consent, and be happy for the scraps she is feeding him. There are some situations where you don't just send things out to the universe and hope for the best. You need to take action to make things right.
Everybody reads what they want I did not state that, in fact by reading "slowly" what I said I told him to change his approach and be different with her since she is being more serene, as I said everybody will read that in a different way
Your advice of more honey and less vinegar and the way you are inviting scorp to talk to her it shows a lot of compassion and love and that approach its always the one that will make a difference in all this. Great advice and great to see your improvements Mel, you sound more calm.
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
I did not state that, in fact by reading "slowly" what I said I told him to change his approach and be different with her since she is being more serene, as I said everybody will read that in a different way 
