I wonder, when DBing, if you suspect your spouse is lying to you...lying about where she's going, what she's doing...making up excuses for coming late, do you just keep your mouth shut? The obvious answer seems to be to keep your mouth shut... But that doesn't seem to command much respect. If you just swallow their lies, doesn't that make you come off looking LESS attractive instead of more attractive?
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14
