One year in but a newbie

[Lifes Twists]

So has anyone have a spouse want you to move in as roomates to split cost while still wanting to date and when you refuse accuse you of just think about yourself and not the kids?

I told her I would only consider this if we were working on the marriage and she went off and told me Basically I was selfish and not thinking of the kids. Of course she is in dedt on several credit cards and loans she took out after she left me.