Andy, remember that feelings come and go, so be careful about what you tell her and what you agree to. I bet almost everyone here has been done or hopeless more times than they can count. Also, be careful that you are not going to give up because you think it will somehow make you hurt less. It won't.
If I were you, I would say very little and listen to what she says. Then take some time to think about it before you respond or start making any plans. It can never hurt you to STFU.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
