Spouse tried I didn't, now opposite

[whytry]

Spouse came home and after short discussion began accusing me of things. I tried to defend myself but they spun into a fury again yelling about how they broke inside and am leaving and how I ruined there day and we were never meant to be together and to just get over them. I'm sincerely depressed as I have been keeping away and since they started the conversation and had to be in my room to get ready etc. It seems just my presence alone sends them over the edge