Spouse tried I didn't, now opposite

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Sandi2, I welcome any questions. As my memory is extremely bad and sometimes it can be jogged by questions rather than me trying my hardest to think alone. Plus the fact that someone is just interested in helping me is comforting.

My spouse is extremely intelligent so I would guess they made it were I would never find posts. To be honest if would have found any months ago when I was struggling it probably would've just angered me. Now, I would love to read them all because I know they would help me realize what improvements that need to be made that I haven't thought about yet.

Yes I had been threatening for years. Even before EA but in my heart I always knew I was the problem.

My spouse believes that them being DONE is the reason. Truthfully, the final straw was spouse filing tax return and putting entire refund in their personal account. This showed me how truly lost I was. As far as I know all money went to bills and from experience my spouse is truthful no matter what