MLC @ 29yrs - What stage is my H at?

[Upwards]

He said that in the evenings when he's on his own at work it gives him the space to think & is like his therapy?!

* He's been avoiding his parents by working & goes straight to his room when he gets home.
* He's not really seeing any of his recovery friends like he was a few months ago when was with them every night until late.
* He stopped going to the rehab centre and speaking to the counselors there where as he was very active before.
* He's started going to new meetings where nobody knows him.
* He was also beginning to avoid the kids but has realised what he was doing & stopped that now.

Its like he's pulled right back from everyone that knows him or is close to him, he's fine with strangers and customers at work that dont really know him in a personal sense & put that down to him being able to pretend his life is great.

I'm certainly keeping my expectations at nothing, I know how up & down he is so know if I expect him to be like he was one day then i'll only be upset/disappointed. At the moment i'm stepped back & watching him whilst focusing on myself, he doesnt like it when I step back though lol!!