Help Newbie with H going thru midlife crisis

[whytry]

TLD, I'm still learning here but I'll give you as much moral support as possible. The folks here are very informative so I've been reading a lot so I can learn myself. I wish I had some input but honestly I was the deficient part of our marriage and it took a while to get my head screwed on straight. I can say that if your H digs deep, one day when he hits rock bottom he will truly see how he acted and be ashamed to his core.