MLC @ 29yrs - What stage is my H at?

[Upwards]

It seems maybe my H is in withdrawal, he's thrown himself head first into work & is working all the hours he can, breaking off only for seeing the kids, meetings (NA/AA) and sleep.

He said he finds he can process everything whilst he's working alone & it helps him continue to move forwards & heal. I was worried at first that he's using it as avoidance but I've realised it's his way of processing things in his own time.

He's gone from doom & gloom to being thankful for what he has in his life and being thankful that he's clean/sober and healthy - it's like he's slowly taking off his crazy glasses & seeing life as it really is again, only at times though!