What do you guys think on the topic of physical touch? My WAW does allow me to massage her feet/legs every other day or so. I noticed that while I am doing it, she not only relaxes but it seems we are able to have small talk about miscellaneous stuff, in a very soft, calm manner (not on guard as she usually is during the day).
I am eagerly awaiting any replies you get to this question because I have the same question/dynamic in my marriage. I was told a while back that if it builds up good will and is welcomed, stick with it.
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14
