Is it cake-eating if W still wants me to do little things for her? Rub her back? Bring her coffee in the morning, etc? Part of me wants to say "are you crazy, you want a divorce, get your own damn coffee" but the other part of me has always enjoyed doing thise things, so why stop now, especially if it builds good will and gives her something to miss when she moves out.
Wife came home from her night out at about 1:45am. This is actually an accomplishment, as it means she left at last call instead of staying until the bar actually closed. I woke up shen she came in but feigned sleep...just seemed easier that way. She got into bed and said "I'm home" and curled up next me, but then it was like she caught herself and moved away from me.
I got up with the kids this morning per usual on weekends.
H: 43 W: 37 M: 11 years T: 12 years S: 11 D: 8 ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14 MC started: 9/22/14 Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14 Piecing: 10/20/14
