I think the hardest thing to do is NOT try to understand why.... I know that is the hardest thing for me, along with being alone. I HATE being alone and knowing that he has her for company every minute (in person or call/text whenever he wants) kills me. I wish you were close enough to hang out together and give each other company while the husbands make these huge mistakes they can't seem to stop themselves from.
Me: 35 husband:39 Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage Twins 5 (boy/girl) Daughter 3 Affair bomb 2/27/14 He moved in with ow 3/13/14 OW kicked him out 6/15/14 4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction