I think the hardest thing to do is NOT try to understand why.... I know that is the hardest thing for me, along with being alone. I HATE being alone and knowing that he has her for company every minute (in person or call/text whenever he wants) kills me. I wish you were close enough to hang out together and give each other company while the husbands make these huge mistakes they can't seem to stop themselves from.


Me: 35 husband:39
Sons 16 and 11 from my first marriage
Twins 5 (boy/girl)
Daughter 3
Affair bomb 2/27/14
He moved in with ow 3/13/14
OW kicked him out 6/15/14
4/2016 he seeks help for sexual addiction