May I suggest that you do a search on Takevowsserious. She has been dealing w/her h in mlc in the home since day one. She's done an excellent job of making a life for her and her two little boys while he's been traveling on the Mother Ship.
Also Raine has been doing an excellent job of rebuilding her life w/her mlc h and children. Her h left for a while, but he's moved back home and they are working towards a new marriage.
To be perfectly honest, many have divorced and gone on w/their lives. Others, are sitting in limbo for many years, hoping against hope, that their spouses will eventually wake up and return home. There are a few on the forum that have reconciled. You might want to go over to Piecing and read up on how some of the posters are coping w/reconciling. A lot depends upon the situation and just how badly the destruction was as to whether or not people reconcile. I know of several cases where the couples divorced and years later reconciled and went on to have wonderful marriages. Again, it all depends upon the people involved and what went down during the crisis.
Take some time and do a search as I suggested. Visit Piecing and read up over there. Reconciling is not easy and it takes a lot of hard work on the people involved. It's not a snap of the finger and everything is okay. Just as they go into crisis, they come back the same way, i.e., nothing is easy when it comes to the MLCer and the WAS.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
