I believe it's because he thinks he is going to get into trouble if he tells me. I know I haven't balanced the whole telling the truth v discipline thing very well, erring on the side of discipline over cutting the kids some slack when they own up.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014