Ok things have now become complicated. I discovered that she has been seeing a few people casually. One of them is married and I know him,I know he was at her apartment this week and I challenged her about it saying she is on the verge of ruining her life by messing around with married guys. She said she knows what she is doing and that she isn't involved with him, apparently he was getting flirtatious with her and she needed to put him straight. She said it had to be done face to face which is why he was at her apartment..Bulls..t. I'm sure his wife wouldn't think it was ok for him to be there and anything she needed to say could have been done by phone or text very easily. She is acting like a crazy woman at the moment, the OM who started all of this will be over for a flying visit to see his family within the next few weeks and she admitted he had been in touch with her so they will probably hook up. I made the mistake of getting into a conversation with her about her behaviour and our relationship etc ( totally against LRT in know) But I think its probably too late for us anyway. She has removed herself completely. not only from our relationship but from her children also which shocks me, how can a loving and devoted mother chnage so dramtically in such a short time. I'm not sure that MC on Wednesday is even worth it as it is bound to go pear shaped so I am at a loss now as to my next step.
