So I guess this is what I'm thinking regarding my W's going out all the time: I say nothing *at least* until Sunday when I hear whatever it is she has to say. If she's moving out immediately, then there is no point in saying anything other than good bye and good luck, and then going as dark as possible...no contact other than for childcare related issues.

However, if we are going to continue living under the same roof then I feel like some boundaries need to be set... Of course me trying to set some fair boundaries is what preceded her saying she wanted a divorce, so... There's the dilemma.

H: 43
W: 37
M: 11 years
T: 12 years
S: 11
D: 8
ILYBINILWY, "I want to move out" and "I want a divorce": 3/23/14
MC started: 9/22/14
Affair and past infidelity discovered: 9/26/14
Piecing: 10/20/14