Wife moved out to be with her Tour Guide Lover

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Its another board that I was reading.

It was helpful, but its very aggressive. Its where I pretty much got the idea to throw her under the bus early on.

I much prefer the loving soft approach.

My question is do I or do I not respond to her texts. Do I go dark. Do I cut her off.

I just am very confused.

I have been warned that I might be supporting her affair by not going hard 180 on her.

We are planning on an in-home separation how can I cut her out completely and utterly.

She says that once her OM leaves she wants to do things with me like a good friend. Is this good bad..you see I am so confused!!