Wife moved out to be with her Tour Guide Lover

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Where I get confused is that some of the Save the Marriage type advisers tell you to not loose contact and connection. Then on TAM and MA they attack you for any type of contact what so ever.

Then you see some of the videos and I get confused.

so when the WAW who is in the OM room living with him communicates me what am I supposed to do?

For example she has an injured shoulder and she tells me about it, what do I do?

When she tells me she has an early morning Fair tomorrow and needs help, do I help, she does not want others to see her POS because she has not told to many people.

I mean UGH!!!