Today, my MLC husband e-mailed and says he wants to meet next week to talk. He has never been the one to initiate a 'talk' in the 9 months we've been separated - it was always me. I really feel like this is going to be it. When we has 'threatened' D before (several times in the past 9 months, but never actually used the word 'divorce'), he has never followed through and done anything about it, but I just feel like this time he will, or already has and wants to prepare me. We have not spoken since I finally told him how I felt about him seeing someone else while he is still married to me, about 2 weeks ago. There was alot of truth to what I told him, and he doesn't want to face himself and his problems. He is deep in 'replay' and told me he loved me just a few weeks ago, and then 5 days later is once again hinting at divorce. I'll be talking with an attorney (initial consult) before I meet with H, just to get a little more prepared. Meeting this coming Wednesday -- any words of wisdom anyone? Tell me I'll be ok, no matter what.
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15
