You snuck in here without me noticing! You sly lil' devil!
I gotta look up the Dear Peggy article and see what that's all about. Always learn something new every day here in DBland.
It is good to see that H is making every effort to make up for the betrayal and loss of trust between you. However, I am also curious to know what YOU'RE doing to make H feel he's needed and how to meet his needs in the new marriage.
As you know, this isn't all about HIM. But you too. What certain things, actions, and behaviors that you're doing that is contributing to the new marriage? Are you able to recognize some of the old patterns? Are you able to develop new habits/patterns on your part that strengthen the overall well-being of this new marriage?
Are are the boys and H interacting lately? Do you see father-son bonding going on pretty well? The baby?
