A forum like this one is a great journal. I went back and read all of my posts. Back to the very first one. Same issues same life. Wow am I hard headed. When will I give up? It's quite clear he wants out. I need to surrender and know that there is another plan for me. Why don't I let him go?
Look at something that for me worked marvelous: you came asking for advice right? Everytime a member gave you one (mrbond,me, starsky, etc..) You spend time responding and trying to justify like there is a reason for everything....if you go to my sitch you will see I used to do the same.... That way you cant change because you always are trying to find a reason... Follow the advice and if it doesnt work...then you can see that it didnt work... But right now you are stuck , thinking that your sitch its unique...and it is untill certain way but again its your choice... Do you want to change?
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
