living with WAW who hasn't walked yet (2)

[Starsky309]

Sure.
Don't know how helpful that response was.

Trust me, I'm trying to help, and want to see you succeed. It's why I'm here, 8 years later, still "paying it forward," Zew. Don't shoot the messenger.

I try to exhort people -- especially men -- to do that which I see is missing. Often, (more often than not, actually), I'm advising them to plan MORE, and not be so reactionary and emotional. But sometimes, I see someone stuck in "what-if's" and paralysis-by-analysis, and I call them as I see them.

I'm sorry if it comes across the wrong way, but I really am trying to help you

Starsky

[zew]

Sorry, I think you took that first "sure" as sarcastic.
It wasn't. It was "yes, i'm dithering"

And at first I thought you were vague. Now I see that you were just encouraging me to get to a decision point.

It doesn't come across the wrong way at all.

Thanks.

[zew]

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living with WAW who hasn't walked yet (3)