Please let me know if I am overreacting. I don't think I am, but I do have a tendency to overreact.
So S calls me frantic and upset. H told D to take the bus home again and not go to daycare. I ask S how often this happens and S says it happens most Thursdays and Fridays when their dad has placement. H and I have discussed this before and I told him D needs to be in daycare. S and D fight like cats and dogs and it is not good for S to watch D. It never ends well.
S told me D ran off. They got into an argument and D ran away. S had to go after her. S tried to call H and H wouldn't answer the phone. I was P*SSED!!! So I called H. No answer. But ole WH doesn't give up that easily. I called and redialed until he picked up. He answers "yes" in a really snarky way. I told him what happened and he said he was on another important call. Really? More important than the kids? I told him again what was going on and he said he would call S and he hung up on me. Oh I don't think so. I tried to tell him that D should go to daycare and S can't watch her etc...he just brushed me off. So I sent him an email. BCC'd my attorney and the GAL letting them know just what the h*ll was going on.
So I am shaking. I call the attorney who tells me to call the cops and investigate and he will follow up with the GAL. So I call S who isn't answering his dam phone either. My mind is racing. S finally answers and says he and D are walking back to the house and that H finally called him and is on the way home. I asked to talk to D but she knew I was mad and didn't want to talk. It's gonna be a long night.
I don't know what to do. I signed that dam parenting agreement. This is why I refused to do 50/50. H doesn't have the sense God gave him. I need talked down off the ledge.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"