You wanted OW out of his life. Now that he's said he's ending contact for a while, I wonder if your feeling has changed to resentment that he even contacted her to begin with.
Thanks for the reply Tarheel! I think you've quite possibly hit the nail on the head there - i've been feeling very angry and frustrated I suppose that i'm in this position and that i've had to put these boundaries in place to protect myself.
I'm feeling a little better this evening, I think I just needed a little time to process things. I need a good nights sleep and hopefully i'll feel much better for it tomorrow
Divorce Final: Oct 2014
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