So talk is useless, and consequences imposed by me aren't effective.
Confront, she denies. Say "I can't support you until you NC with OM", then cut off $. She'll still live here. She boo hoos "He's such an a$$. He cut me off for no reason." She has to be willing to file to get any $ relief order. In the mean time she gets a little of her own $, and that's good enough to get by, so she won't file, she'll wait at home until she's ready, then file. And by confronting, she just goes farther underground.
So none of that works, does it.
Or, I can try to get usable evidence of A. L just called to clear me on something there. In about 10 days I will or will not have evidence. I can try anew to get her with OM. That would at least break the whole denial thing; might end A. If not, then what am I waiting for?
And of course, W just called about getting the tablet again, except now she just wants a $20/month hotspot and to borrow D12's tablet to which I'd like to say NFW while you are having A with OM. But now, instead of wanting a $$$ tablet, she's being reasonable with just the monthly charge, which makes it a whole lot harder to say no for any good reason. (that doesn't involve the A confrontation)
Regarding the financial plan / expense account, I have printed out 3 different descriptions of this model from various financial websites. (no pictures) When I get into that again, it won't be just my plan. Any rational conversation about anything (not even R related) seems to be futile. Nonetheless, I will go through it again, listen to feedback, then impose it.
