Actually we both worked. A lot of times I felt she put her job over mine. I just wanted equal billing. I am realizing that I never made distinct decisions. I should have planned out things to do. I see she's been going places, nicer eater ants with her OM. Things she wanted from me. I think I never really explored her soul. I understand what she means I knew her but I never really new her.
I was a good father and a good lover and workout partner. She even says a good friend, but I was to caught up in the minutiae to see what she really wanted out of life.
I just don't know if I can ever get her back.
Her plans are to move into the house. But live separately and keep her affair going!
Is this hopeless?
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
