What types of issues? It helps to know details like this for us to understand how to help you.
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Now I'm the best I've ever been and S decided it's too late.
ALL WAS's say things like this, it doesn't mean there's no chance. That's just how they feel right here right now. Feelings can and do change over time. There are many reconciled marriages detailed on these forums and one thing they all have in common is that the WAS said it was too late, there was no chance, they were 100% done, etc. WAS's always speak in absolutes.
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How do I rekindle S love when I have so much to give now and more than I ever dreamed possible.
You must quit trying to fix the M and instead work on you. It sounds like you've already grown a lot which is great, but it takes a long, long time of changed behavior before the WAS starts believing the changes are real. Give your spouse time and space, don't pressure them about the M.
It appears in your OP that you avoided talking about gender, if you happen to be a same-sex couple then have no fear, you are totally welcome here.
