We are still living in same house, so I have to be careful how I switch the finances. I don't want to do something major that he will notice and get angry about. I also feel bad that I would even think of doing something like this. My H has changed so much so quick and I have a hard time keeping up.
I asked him what was sticking out of his shirt, he showed me his tattoo and apologized for lying. He said he thought I would get mad about it. I am mad about the lying and made that clear. I am wondering what more stupid lies there are. I already know some of the lies as he is not admitting to the affair. The scary part is he acts so normal that all his decisions are normal in the world, he is just going with how he feels finally. Why would he lie...is it for the thrill? dam its like he is 16.
He told me once his work issue was resolved he wants a divorce, which obviously I don't want. He likes me to believe he has been unhappy forever. Somedays it is hard to stay strong. I feel bad for my d7 and d5.
