M thanks. Just what I needed. Its also possible thst her angry texts were bc I didn't do what she wanted. I've always knuckled under to the pressure when I wsnted to keep the peace. That's what got me here. There's only one set of things to consider. Keep me and my kids on a healthy path forward.
My one wise friend actually wanted to whack me with a 2x4 for even letting my brain think thst W was acting mad because she wants to stay together and I didn't understand that. She's msd because I said I'm not playing the game anymorr. I will tske my ball and leave the playground now. I'm getting there. Thsnks for you support.
W is also treating my D13 as her BFF. Its causing hurt to her. I can see it. Thsts something I would like her to get counseling to work through.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14