Gabbysmom - You are right I would get another night with S3 and S1 on W. But H also gets extra time with the boys all day on Saturday now. H used to not see the kids on Saturdays. We have things scheduled tomorrow from 8 am to 5 pm and he will get to be with them all day (not sure the combo of who will have what kid).

I do like your idea of me getting to spend time with S5 one night and H getting the other boys!! Maybe I will propose that.

I really want to be accommodating but I am really trying hard to start a new life and get some space from H so having to see him so much is hard.