Thanks Bug! I am trying hard to step back and give my H some space to make decisions, especially involving the kids and even if I don't agree. I would must prefer that H have an opinion and fight for it then ignore the issue or give in and resent me forever, which is what he has done since the kids were born.
Need advice on some schedule with the kids:
H has the kids Wednesday and Friday and then family day on Sunday. Kids are now playing sports. We have games all day Saturday. So now H and I will both be with the kids on Saturday either at the games together and/or watching the little guys while the big guys are playing. No issue with Saturday.
S5 has practice Wednesday night, which is normally H's night. H took S5 to practice and then out to dinner, while I watched S3 and S1. H said that he wants another night in addition to Wednesday since he wont see S3 and S1. I would therefore lose another night with the kids. I really don't want to change the schedule. I feel like this is a result of our S, which what H asked for. If S5's practice was on my night, I would not ask for an extra day. What do you think?
