Still trying to pluck up the courage to call. Just finished ready Divorce remedy and ended up feeling even more dispondent. Felt I had to "skip to chapter 9". My wife is one of those personalities that once she has made a decision nothing will change.
Would a 1 hour coaching session help me to know how to act in the following situation that will bring me back on the road to rebuilding my marriage? 180's etc. have not seemed to have worked.
She has scheduled a meeting with a mediator on Wednesday to discuss finances. Her words are :"I think it would be good to start with the financial side as it might take away a lot of anxiety on both our sides to come to an agreement on this." Considering that I have been paying fully for everything for both of us during thi sseperation( The mortgage and the rent of the appartment I had to move to) and that she has full accesss to my salary and bank account and credit cards I am not sure what she has to be anxious about.