I am getting support from a counselor and we have attended marriage counseling. The main issue I have with marriage counseling is that it is a female counselor and I get to sit in a chair while these two validate each other about everything horrible I have ever said or done for about 45 minutes. The last 10 minutes is usually me trying to speak up or finally get a word in and instead I get stepped over or told that I'm over-reacting by them both. I asked my wife if we can attend a different marriage counselor but she insists she likes this lady and won't go anywhere else. So I have two choices, 1 quit attending and really kill my chances for marriage, or 2 sit there and deal with it..... On another note, my wife moved out last Friday after signing a year long lease. Took almost everything out of the house, left messes everywhere , and has stopped wearing her wedding ring. My heart hurts and I miss my best friend and wife.
