Thanks Mr Bond, totally the way I'm leaning, and I won't, but it's tough to hear that kind of stuff from third parties.
Twinmom, thanks for your insight! I think she already knows I am willing to work on our relationship, and she knows it's not what I want. If I hadn't mentioned it already when I got sucked into previous relationship discussions, I probably would.
I think that's actually the problem. She thinks she still has me.
Thanks for the comments both of you! Wish me luck! Mantra: only talk about schedule, only talk about schedule, only talk about schedule
